The support you need during the most critical time of your life.

The Support You Need During The Most Difficult Time
Of Your Life.

Divorce hurts, but it doesn’t have to be the end. Whether you’re trying to save your marriage or move on from one — I can help.

Are you tired yet?

When a man is dealing with issues in his marriage one of the hardest things for him to do is accept that he needs help.

 You ever ask yourself…

 

How do some men go from barely speaking to their wife… to her loving them more than ever?


How do some men bounce back after divorce… and trust again enough to remarry?

 

How do they move on without staying stuck in the hurt?

 

It’s not luck.


And it’s not magic.


It’s help.

 

The men whose marriages survived… and the ones who found love again after heartbreak…


They didn’t do it alone.


They stopped pretending they were fine.


They stopped playing with the idea of divorce like it was the only option.


They did the work.


And they got the guidance they needed.

 

If you want to finally be happy in your marriage—or if you want to move on from a broken one without staying broken yourself…

 

You’ve got to take the first step.

 

Stop asking, “Why does it seem so easy for them?”


And start asking, “What am I willing to do to change the story for myself?”

It’s not about making your wife want you back. It’s about you wanting to and deciding to make real change.

solutions & expertise

Don’t let pride or fear keep you stuck.

Our 3-step approach helps you create lasting change to save your marriage or recover after divorce.

LEARN

Proverbs 18:15

Learn From Your Past

Make the decision to learn new information that helps you to see things differently.

GROW

Colossians 2:7

Grow In Christ

After gaining new knowledge, you’ll start to see new things that will promote growth in new areas of life.

CHANGE

Romans 12:2

Change For The Better

New perspectives lead to changing the way you think resulting in breaking free from old habits.

Take the first step

CHALLENGE YOURSELF to
make impactful change.

Take your love and your life to unprecedented heights.

Making changes and learning new habits takes time. The key to real change is consistency, focusing on small wins, and not getting discouraged if things don’t click right away. Keep at it, trust the process, and you’ll see real progress. Here's how I can help...

Self-Awareness

If you don’t understand yourself, you’ll keep making the same mistakes. I help men recognize destructive patterns, stop self-sabotage, and make smarter choices in life and love.

Accountability Mindset

Blaming others keeps you stuck, but owning your choices puts you back in control. I help you own your choices, break bad patterns, and build the kind of discipline that leads to real growth.

Porn Addiction

Porn can mess with your expectations, wreck intimacy and make you feel stuck in a cycle of shame. I'll help you take back control by figuring out the root cause, building better habits, and reconnecting in a real way.

Trust Building

After betrayal, trusting again feels impossible, but shutting down only hurts you more. I show you how to rebuild trust by setting clear expectations, recognizing red flags, and avoiding self-sabotage.

Boundary Setting

If you don’t set boundaries, people will walk all over you. I help you define what you will and won’t accept, so you can protect your peace and build relationships that respect your time, energy, and values.

Communication Skills

If you can’t express yourself, your marriage can fall apart fast. Learn how to communicate clearly and confidently so you can express yourself without arguments or misunderstandings.

My Mission

Help men overcome and avoid divorce through self-awareness.

— About Me

What's goin on!? Glad we have a chance to connect!

"I enjoy helping men to get out of their dark places so they can see how much more they're worth."

My whole focus is to help men work through challenging times so they can move forward and enjoy the marriage they’ve always desired

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Real People, Real Results

They didn’t have to trust me — but they did. Here’s what happened...

Testimonials

Real People,
Real Results

They didn’t have to trust me — but they did. Here’s what happened...

Testimonials

Real People, Real Results

They didn’t have to trust me — but they did. Here’s what happened...

"Dimitri was always able to point the conversation back to God no matter how mad I was. Even if it was hard to hear, he was able to share the truth with me in love. He's consistent, patient, and provides sound information which I can trust."
DeMarco H.
Woodland, CA
"I trust Dimitri and his opinions, advice, and guidance. I feel that he really knows me and I am very appreciative of that. He is fair, but he is also blunt and real."
Brandon N.
Burnsville, MN
"I have shared more information about myself with Dimitri than I have shared with any other person. It's easy to talk with a lot of people, but it's hard to share your deepest feelings with everyone."
Emilio G.
Roseville, CA
"Dimitri understands the assignment that God has given Him. I have listened to his podcast and I feel comfortable with him. We are like minded...so I feel Dimitri understands things and provides real solutions."
Steven P.
Rocklin, CA

According to a recent article, men suffer more from relationship dissolution than women and decline with the separation more in well-being and increase more in loneliness. [Wahring et al., 2024]

Divorce can leave men feeling completely alone, without a support system to lean on. The weight of shame, regret, and uncertainty can make it easy to shut down, avoiding people and bottling everything up. But isolation isn’t just lonely—it’s dangerous. 

Without the right support, it’s easy to spiral into unhealthy habits, rash decisions, or even panic over the thought of facing life alone. The truth is, you don’t have to do this by yourself. There’s a better way forward, and it starts with reaching out.

Most recently divorced men are not ready to date, but the overwhelmingly strong feelings of loneliness and isolation cause them to seek female companionship before they are. 

So, they turn to dating apps and dating coaches (mainly out of desperation) in hopes of quickly finding romance, as a subconscious attempt to redeem their failed marriage. Instead of preparing themselves for a successful new relationship, by getting the proper help that teaches them how to gradually return to the dating scene, they jump into the deepest end of the pool.

Then there are men on the brink of divorce. You may have begun experiencing uncontrollable anxiousness because your marriage is failing and you know that any day now, it could be the last day of your marriage. The fear of not having anyone to turn to after a divorce is scary.

If you’re constantly plagued with the what-ifs of divorce, I can help.

For over a decade, I’ve helped men navigate the emotional challenges of marriage—giving them the best chance to save their relationship and break the destructive patterns that may have led to divorce.

 

Many of my clients either:

  • Are successful in their careers—business owners, engineers, or professionals—but feel lost when divorce becomes a factor.
  • Recently went through a divorce (or are on the brink of one) and don’t want to waste years stuck in regret or fear of getting hurt again.
  • Physically and personally, my clients are fathers, single, remarried, introverted, extroverted, in shape, out of shape—you name it. The one thing they all share? They refuse to let divorce define their future.

 

Whether you’re:

  • Struggling to build a marriage that helps you gain the love and respect of your wife or..
  • Ready to move past divorce, rebuild your confidence and attract a partner who actually values you…

This is your chance to move forward the right way. Let’s go.

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