The support you need during the most critical time of your life.
The support you need during the most difficult time of your life.
The Support You Need During The Most Difficult Time Of Your Life.
Divorce hurts, but it doesn’t have to be the end. Whether you’re trying to save your marriage or move on from one — I can help.
Are you tired yet?
When a man is dealing with issues in his marriage one of the hardest things for him to do is accept that he needs help.
You ever ask yourself…
How do some men go from barely speaking to their wife… to her loving them more than ever?
How do some men bounce back after divorce… and trust again enough to remarry?
How do they move on without staying stuck in the hurt?
It’s not luck.
And it’s not magic.
It’s help.
The men whose marriages survived… and the ones who found love again after heartbreak…
They didn’t do it alone.
They stopped pretending they were fine.
They stopped playing with the idea of divorce like it was the only option.
They did the work.
And they got the guidance they needed.
If you want to finally be happy in your marriage—or if you want to move on from a broken one without staying broken yourself…
You’ve got to take the first step.
Stop asking, “Why does it seem so easy for them?”
And start asking, “What am I willing to do to change the story for myself?”
Are you tired yet?
One of the hardest things for a man to do is accept that he needs help.
Conventional counseling is no longer the go-to for most men. Yeah, the counselor might have all the degrees, a fancy office that smells like cedar wood, and a comfy chair you sink into—but none of that matters when you feel like you can’t be you.
You can’t speak freely without being judged.
You can’t show anger without being labeled aggressive.
You can’t cry without feeling weak.
And somehow, you’re always painted as the problem.
It feels scripted, like they’re checking boxes instead of actually connecting. You leave each session wondering, “Did that even help?”
You’re not alone. A lot of men are walking out of these sessions more confused than when they walked in—and spending a whole lot of money just to feel unheard.
The truth is, credentials don’t mean much if someone can’t reach you where you are and help you tap into what really needs to shift.
If that sounds familiar, it’s time for a different approach—one built for you, not against you.
It’s not about making your wife want you back. It’s about you wanting to and deciding to make real change.
SOLUTIONS & EXPERTISE
How We Help
Our 3-step approach helps you find and fix the real
problems you’ve been ignoring by getting to the main cause.
SOLUTIONS & EXPERTISE
How We Help
Our 3-step system helps people find and fix the real problems they’ve been ignoring by getting to the main cause.
Making changes and learning new
behaviors takes time.
The key is to stay consistent, focus on small wins, and not get discouraged if things don’t click right away. Keep at it, trust the process, and you’ll see real progress. These key areas are my focus…
Making changes and learning new
behaviors takes time.
The key is to stay consistent, focus on small wins, and not get discouraged if things don’t click right away. Keep at it, trust the process, and you’ll see real progress. These key areas are my focus…
My Mission
Help men overcome and avoid divorce through self-awareness.
— About Me
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"I enjoy helping men to get out of their dark places so they can see how much more they're worth."
My whole focus is to help men work through challenging times so they can move forward and enjoy the marriage they’ve always desired
Testimonials
Real People, Real Results
Here is what they have to say:
Testimonials
Real People,
Real Results
Here is what they have to say:
Dimitri was always able to point the conversation back to God no matter how mad I was. Even if it was hard to hear, he was able to share the truth with me in love. He’s consistent, patient, and provides sound information which I can trust.
DeMarco H.
Woodland, CA
I trust Dimitri and his opinions, advice, and guidance. I feel that he really knows me and I am very appreciative of that. He is fair, but he is also blunt and real.
Brandon N.
Minneapolis, MN
I have shared more information about myself with Dimitri than I have shared with any other person. It’s easy to talk with a lot of people, but it’s hard to share your deepest feelings with everyone.
Emilio G.
Roseville, CA
Dimitri understands the assignment that God has given Him. I have listened to his podcast and I feel comfortable with him. We are like minded…so I feel Dimitri understands things and provides real solutions.
Steven P.
Rocklin, CA
According to a recent article, men suffer more from relationship dissolution than women and decline with the separation more in well-being and increase more in loneliness. [Wahring et al., 2024]
Divorce can leave men feeling completely alone, without a support system to lean on. The weight of shame, regret, and uncertainty can make it easy to shut down, avoiding people and bottling everything up. But isolation isn’t just lonely—it’s dangerous.
Without the right support, it’s easy to spiral into unhealthy habits, rash decisions, or even panic over the thought of facing life alone. The truth is, you don’t have to do this by yourself. There’s a better way forward, and it starts with reaching out.
Most recently divorced men are not ready to date, but the overwhelmingly strong feelings of loneliness and isolation cause them to seek female companionship before they are.
So, they turn to dating apps and dating coaches (mainly out of desperation) in hopes of quickly finding romance, as a subconscious attempt to redeem their failed marriage. Instead of preparing themselves for a successful new relationship, by getting the proper help that teaches them how to gradually return to the dating scene, they jump into the deepest end of the pool.
Then there are men on the brink of divorce. You may have begun experiencing uncontrollable anxiousness because your marriage is failing and you know that any day now, it could be the last day of your marriage. The fear of not having anyone to turn to after a divorce is scary.
If you’re constantly plagued with the what-ifs of divorce, I can help.
For over a decade, I’ve helped men navigate the emotional challenges of marriage—giving them the best chance to save their relationship and break the destructive patterns that may have led to divorce.
Many of my clients either:
- Are successful in their careers—business owners, engineers, or professionals—but feel lost when divorce becomes a factor.
- Recently went through a divorce (or are on the brink of one) and don’t want to waste years stuck in regret or fear of getting hurt again.
- Physically and personally, my clients are fathers, single, remarried, introverted, extroverted, in shape, out of shape—you name it. The one thing they all share? They refuse to let divorce define their future.
Whether you’re:
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- Struggling to build a marriage that helps you gain the love and respect of your wife or…
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Ready to move past divorce, rebuild your confidence and attract a partner who actually values you…
According to a recent article, men suffer more from relationship dissolution than women and decline with the separation more in well-being and increase more in loneliness. [Wahring et al., 2024]
Divorce can leave men feeling completely alone, without a support system to lean on. The weight of shame, regret, and uncertainty can make it easy to shut down, avoiding people and bottling everything up. But isolation isn’t just lonely—it’s dangerous.
Without the right support, it’s easy to spiral into unhealthy habits, rash decisions, or even panic over the thought of facing life alone. The truth is, you don’t have to do this by yourself. There’s a better way forward, and it starts with reaching out.
Most recently divorced men are not ready to date, but the overwhelmingly strong feelings of loneliness and isolation cause them to seek female companionship before they are.
So, they turn to dating apps and dating coaches (mainly out of desperation) in hopes of quickly finding romance, as a subconscious attempt to redeem their failed marriage. Instead of preparing themselves for a successful new relationship, by getting the proper help that teaches them how to gradually return to the dating scene, they jump into the deepest end of the pool.
Then there are men on the brink of divorce. You may have begun experiencing uncontrollable anxiousness because your marriage is failing and you know that any day now, it could be the last day of your marriage. The fear of not having anyone to turn to after a divorce is scary.
If you’re constantly plagued with the what-ifs of divorce, I can help.
For over a decade, I’ve helped men navigate the emotional challenges of marriage—giving them the best chance to save their relationship and break the destructive patterns that may have led to divorce.
Many of my clients either:
- Are successful in their careers—business owners, engineers, or professionals—but feel lost when divorce becomes a factor.
- Recently went through a divorce (or are on the brink of one) and don’t want to waste years stuck in regret or fear of getting hurt again.
- Physically and personally, my clients are fathers, single, remarried, introverted, extroverted, in shape, out of shape—you name it. The one thing they all share? They refuse to let divorce define their future.
Whether you’re:
- Struggling to build a marriage that helps you gain the love and respect of your wife or…
Ready to move past divorce, rebuild your confidence and attract a partner who actually values you…
This is your chance to move forward the right way. Let’s go.
